Thanks for your kind words. Yeah, I don't know. I've learnt to expect the unexpected from many people to be honest. I really just don't get why your friend would suddenly begin to say such things. Maybe she is just trying to protect your feelings by warning you about how people don't like fat people, that it is not her sentiments but she thinks she knows how people think. But, that being said, that is a little worrying though, sometimes when people say you should watch out for other people because they think this and that, then it's usually the case that that person themselves has that stuff running around in their head. It's a tough call, I think let's give your friend the benefit of the doubt for now.