I think everyone who has posted has probably given you a lot to think about...in some cases probably more than you thought?

From a guys prospective...it would not be a good idea to hop into another sexual encounter.

Sounds like from your second post in this thread that there is a lot going on...best time not to make any major decisions. Having sexual activity can be considered by some casual and nothing major...I would suggest that it is a major decision...Don't you think?

P.S. As a guy, I don't typically talk to women about sex who I meet at a group meeting, program, or in general...