I hope you both achieve your goals. It's hard. I just want everything cleaned up, new things brought in (for example, I'm planning on getting a computer desk) AND (it's a big AND) all done in accordance to my OCD. I don't want to wait for months. It's just ridiculous to waste more time. But I can't do it on my own.

I cancel things sometimes, too, somat. You just don't want all the anxiety, racing thoughts and pressure.

Angelique, I hope you find someone who can help. I know what it's like having a landlord (or lady, as was my case) get on you. While I agree they have the right to expect their apartments kept in good condition, I think there has to be leeway for those of us who deal with mental and/or physical disabilities.

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