Again I must say thank you all. I am interested in the male perspective on this as well. So thankyou. I know someone said that I need ot consider others when engaging in such activities. I felt awful about it, and hadn't given thought to that, saying that eventhough I didn't care about myself I should consider others. So a step towards that I guess is going to the doctor and talking to her about some things such as the possibility of birth control and maybe getting tested or something. I feel also that I must admit that I was making an attempt at reckless behavior last night but things didn't work out for various reasons; probly that was best. I don't want to tell everything to the nurses who run the outpatient program I'm finishing because it's too personal to me to tell them. I feel more comfortable telling my T eventhough I've known them longer.
Danielle