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Originally Posted by _Mouse
I think it takes as long as it takes. Sobbing is one tool. But not the only.
I've had to come to an internal understanding of what the loss means to me. And reclaim that part of me that got lost with it.
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This.
My father died two decades ago. For the first decade or so, I mourned the person. Then it started to change to a mourning of the hole that had been left in my life by his absence (I was fairly young when he died.) That was a whole second grieving process in itself, which isn't quite complete yet and may never be. I'm wondering if you might be entering that stage with regards to your grandmother.