I am sick of people perpetuating this delusion that society is equally kind and accepting to everyone and that if a person isn't able to get socially integrated it is their own fault for "not trying hard enough" or something like that. That's easy for you to say if you are one of the people who is naturally liked by others, because all you have to do is be friendly and you will get accepted. But there are many of us who people for whatever reason just tend to be annoyed by us. When we try to be friendly, people will often react in a rude disparaging manner. In my opinion, somebody who is constantly rejected and disparaged by other yet continues to be social and outgoing likely has some sociopathic tendencies. A normal person will NATURALLY become withdrawn. So who's fault is it? The person who does what ANY NORMAL HUMAN BEING would do in thsir position or the people who put them in that position in the first place?