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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99
I used to talk to mine all the time too.
I will never do that outside of session with another one. It's *my* boundary. Maybe I would call if I was literally going to kill myself that day. Maybe if a close family member died or I hurt myself badly and ended up in the hospital, but that's about it.
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I'm with you on this!
I've found that the more contact I have with my T's between session, the stronger the connection becomes. Then it goes out of control.
Tighter boundaries for me, work better - but I like that it's my decision and that she is available if I need her. I don't need to be waiting all week for an email response, or fret about what I wrote or a lack of response.