I am lost. I have known this woman for over two years. I am going through a separation. She is widowed. While we were friends she started dating an old friend of mine. The relationship is bad, but she wants to see it through. Meanwhile while trying to help her with that relationship - we fell in love. We cannot seem to stay apart. We have tried. We are not having any physical relations, but I love her with all my heart. She knows. She has tried to push me away, but keeps coming back because we are so close and our lives are so intertwined. I am lost. I want to win her. She is not happy, and admits it, but won't leave him no matter what he does. Help me survive this!