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It's your life to live as you choose. You only need to live by your standards. If someone does not befriend you for who you are... that's on them. I happen to be outgoing... and believe me, there are definitely those who get annoyed with me.
I know a lot of people... I have 3 real friends and these I people have known me for a long time.
Plus, I have people in my life for different reasons. I do not like certain traits and other traits I like... I avoid the situations that I do not want to be in... does not mean I will let that person go. We do have some mutual values and that's ok.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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