welcome to PC.

It sounds like you've got a lot happening right now. I'm sorry about that. I know you don't want to let him go, but if he's going to be that insensitive and it's leading to more emotional problems for you, then maybe you can sit down with him (when you're both free and in a good mood) and talk to him about how you feel. Sometimes guys don't get everything, because the two sexes are fairly different. Maybe he'll come around and realize he needs to communicate more with you. Maybe you do need to take a break apart to re-evaluate how you really feel about him. It could result in something you don't want, but you're important. If you're not happy, it's not fair for you to stay in the relationship.

I hope things work out for you and I apologize for being so abrupt.