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Old Aug 07, 2015, 02:38 AM
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Originally Posted by Bill3 View Post
How long have you been seeing him?

Not long. A little over 3 months. And we waited to be intimate, we dated 3 months before we did it lol. We wanted to make sure we are good friends first. He said he would wait as long as needed. Other men guilted me or I guilted myself. We are still getting to know each other

We are both insecure in relationships. I am terrified he will take advantage of me and he is terrified I'll dump him. Seriously one way or the other men took advantage of me financially ( even if they made a ton of money!!!) and took me for granted. On the superficial level they were awesome but in reality they weren't

And now the fear it will happen again takes over

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