Ok, so some of your post was a bit hard for me to understand fully, so take that in mind with my reply as I may have mis-read a few things.

Did you actually go and whisper things into people's ears? Or were you just thinking them? Because..... well, the stuff you say you've said is definitely the way to push away any potential help. Have you ever tried to actually become friends with any of your coworkers? If they're offering to listen..... have you tried taking them up on it? Like... not telling them alllllll the deep dark secrets, but you can share bits and pieces to start building up some trust.

Sorry to hear that the mental health facility is.... well, nuts and disorganized. I think a lot of us would find that stressful!!!

What exactly were you telling your boss? I'm not sure on that - were you telling your boss about the mental health place?

What sort of a response would you have liked from your boss? What were you wanting to get through telling them about what had been going on? It doesn't seem like there was much your boss could do for you, regardless of if they would even want to or not. All they could possibly give you would be the cliche sayings that drive all of us nuts!