Sunrise, sorry if my reply to you sounded "off" I get so "into" thinking and discussions that I post as if I'm sitting with the person really looking at the subject.

I dont' know you and was just replying to the written words and what comes up for me as I read and think.

I;m sure things will work out eventually for you and your daughter, though there is never a perfect solution olny a good enought one LOL!

Best wishes