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If you are uncomfortable with a therapist who discloses, then seek one who does not.

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I am not uncomfortable with a therapist who discloses. My therapist discloses too. In fact, I'll bet she discloses much more than most do. I know all about transference and countertransference. I have a deep connection with my therapist.

I see red flags. If you don't, that's okay.

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I think the reactions of people who see red flags should not be dismissed. Although their reactions may be more related to themselves than to pinksoil, they merit serious attention. As much as (not more than) the reactions of those who do not want to see them. IMO.