A good healthy relationship reflects on your person, by way of stupid smiles, a healthy glow, general happiness, its just obvious that this person is happy and content.


An unhealthy or bad relationship does the same, but its reflection is much more obvious.

Weight issues, self-care negligence, depression, isolation, anxiety, etc.


I've worn both reflections, and I can't tell you how absolutely amazing it is to be free of the unhealthy reflection.


You left a perfectly good bf for a dude you had crazy chemistry with because you mistook that chemistry for love.

You loved the idea of the baker man, only to discover that the reality of him is quite an ugly one. Now your fear of being alone has you trapped with him, even though you know he's not good to, or for you.

Sometimes we really don't know we're being abused, but we still know whatever is happening is not right... Please stop ignoring those feelings.


This relationship is doomed, besides he's abusive behavior, you are completely incompatible, a future with him is a bleak and depressed one. Must be if your depressed and tempted to hurt yourself before you even make it through a year with him...


Please go back home to your parents, or get a place of your own, you're so young, don't waste your pretty on him.


Alone time is probably what's best for you at this point, no matter how you loath it. You need time to find you, nurture you and take the steps to securing a future that's best for you.

A bf will just side track this process, and rob you of effectively learning how to be on your own. Happily