Hi Minion. Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry you are having trouble trusting after a divorce. Sounds like you are still mystified by the first one asking yourself "Why?" A therapist can often escort us through the trenches of our shattered emotions. Most insurance covers some therapies with copay.

Here are some articles that might help
Psych Central - Search results for Trusting after divorce

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