It really sounds to me like she's almost being held emotionally hostage by these men, so its not that she "doesn't want to have anything to do with you", it's that she literally can't. How can she? If her husband is as controlling as you say he is. What if he's physically abusing her as well? What if she needs help? So no, don't stop trying.
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