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Originally Posted by CopperStar
... I feel like my mother has royally screwed me over by never getting me proper help all these years when I was clearly very unstable. And now I need her to help me with transportation, and she's displaying a very clear attitude that she doesn't want to help me get back on my feet. She has **** all over my attempts to be independent over the years and has always displayed the attitude of wanting me as her demented house pet, trapped forever as narcissistic supply. I fear I have lost and the checkmate is imminent.
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CopperStar, I don't know how old you are, but I'm confused as to why it's your mother's responsibility for you to get the proper help? I understand that she's putting her needs before yours (I had a mother who did the same to me...for example, going away to college after high school was not an option for me because I had to take care of my mom), but I'm unclear as to why you can't get the help you need without your mother's permission.