I went to sleep at 10 pm and woke up at 10:45 pm to a phone call from my ex, we dated about 2 years ago and it wasn't a healthy relationship, he was a party animal who often drank and I got into some close calls while dating him. I ignored the call, but then 30 mins later he called again. Then at 12 am he called again. I texted him saying "Please don't call me at midnight, I'm not interested, I'm sleeping." I was mad because this isn't the first time he's called me super late interrupting my sleep, I just didn't answer before.

He texts me saying, "I can't believe I ever cared about you. You fake nasty person. What about the video? I'd hate if there was a video of me out there for everyone to see." I texted him saying, "What video? I don't have a video of you. What are you talking about?" He said "You shouldn't send videos to people if you don't want them to be public. Hahaha the video is now viral. Why would you do that to yourself?" I started freaking out because I couldn't remember if I had ever sent him a video but during the time we dated I'm sure I might have. I called him and he answered but he sounded like he just woke up and said "What are you talking about?" I said "You were just texting me about posting a video online, that's illegal to do that to someone without their consent, and if I ever find a video of myself online I will contact the police. I'm saving these texts." He said "There is no video." I hung up the phone and he texted me after that saying "A mutual friend of ours has the video, people are crazy, you have your whole life ahead of you, if that shows up online it isn't my fault." I called him again in tears and left a voice mail telling him that is illegal. He texted me saying "Stop leaving me voice messages, you're harassing me. I never want to hear from you again."

By this point it's 2 am and I'm on the floor crying, scouring the internet trying to see if anything shows up. Nothing does. I don't know who this mutual friend is that he's referring to, or what video he's referring to. Is he bluffing?? I looked online for it again today and still haven't found anything. I can't believe this all started just because I didn't answer his drunken calls at midnight. I'm paranoid now that someone out there has a video of me and that he's going to post it on the internet. What should I do?!