Uhmm, he did what? And he treats you like a little dog (Yeah puppy, you did really well!) with that BJ thing.

I got a bad feeling as I read through your post. It sounds like there is a power gap between you and your partner. And I don't think that he treats you well. He's subtle with it, as for example: instead of telling you how he likes to be touched (hand and mouth) he "compliments" you, I don't feel like there is enough trust in your relationship to talk honest and without fears about how each one of you likes to be pleased. And that leads me to my next point: How do you like to be stimulated? Is your partner thoughtful enough to give you enough space for trying to find your own personal sexuality? Or is he not interested in it? Did he ever asked you if you are satisfied or - in general - is he interested in pleasing you? Did he ever let you orgasm?
It's a one way thing, could that be right? You only write about him, how he should experiencing sex the best.

In person I think that he is not thoughtful enough of your virginity and only thinks about his own pleasure.
And maybe I am terribly wrong.