Hi helpingmakechanges. Welcome to Psych Central (PC). I am sorry you are struggling with feeling you might have Aspergers. Only a psych doc can give you a reliable diagnosis.
You can search the article archive at PC by going to Psych Central - Trusted mental health, depression, bipolar, ADHD & psychology information. and search in upper right corner for example " diagnosing aspergers "

There are many kind and compassionate people here so you are free to feel at home here. Many people here at PC find they can share these feelings and what they are going through with the confidence that people go through similar things and can empathize. So many forums are offered as well as Chatrooms (after you have 5 posts or comments on others posts).

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