So there is this girl that I've been talking to for a couple months now, and we just had a big serious talk today that has left me very very sad.
We where in this "relationship" type thing for about 3 weeks, where we where not official but we kissed, cuddled, all that, but no sex and it wasn't an official relationship. She said for her, it was her seeing if I was right for her or not.
She basically told me that im an amazing guy, and literally the only problem and the only reason she doesn't want a relationship with me is because she doesn't feel sexually connected with me. she said that she didnt feel anything from the first kiss, but thought maybe the more we did it, that her feelings would change, but they didn't at all change. she didnt feel anything.
This upsets me to no end, knowing that she views me as perfect in every sense other than her not being sexually connected to me. I feel so helpless. What can I do, if anything?
note: I was very very nervous with her alot and felt slightly uncomfortable around her, maybe that showed through with my emotions and when i was kissing her?
I just don't know what to do, i've said all of this to her and she said she doesn't want to try it again and put me through all the emotion only for her to find out the same thing. I dont know what to do but all I want is her.
What can I do, if anything?