I would bet that this person has used the same or similar abusive words to others. They are a true "bully" and their words are meaningless at best. I used to feel a lot like you do, and sometimes I still do, but then I remind myself that this person "sucks", and that I am a better person, a loving person ... and turn their own abusive words towards them... where they belong.

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