Sometimes we can say what we want but in a more diplomatic way without getting "politically correct" either.....or sometimes ask questions to get people to think outside their box.

There are times when we need to shoot straight....there are other times when diplomacy works a lot better & even gets our point across more effectively......it's good when it becomes their idea...not ours forced on them....you know like when that light bulb comes on in our brain....then we own the light.