scorpiosis is right.....sexual attraction either is or it isn't there & if she's looking for someone that she wants that connection with & not just someone to enjoy going out with.....then she is just telling you what her feelings are......I've also been in her place....& I also ended up married in that situation & it was miserable because I didn't listen to my gut feeling....though that came from some things he did that caused me to loose respect for him & thus turned me off on how I felt toward him but at that young age, I wasn't aware of what really was going on though I knew something because I talked to my mom about calling off the wedding but got talked back into it.....HUGE MISTAKE.

It's better to be honest up front like she is being. All you can really do is move on....& look for someone who you both have the connection with together. I'm sure there are girls that you have no attraction to & you wouldn't want to date them even though they might flirt with you.....it's a chemistry thing & there is nothing that you can do to change it......be thankful that she didn't lead you on longer before letting you know that she didn't feel an attraction to you. There were some guys I knew up front & didn't even have to give it a try first