Were you trying to join ADD Forums? It looks like a great place to discuss AD(H)D with people but it seems like they are having some kind of site administration problem. I tried to join ages ago and never got a confirmation e-mail. I waited a while, checking spam regularly (I even kept older stuff in my spam for a while longer just in case), and then sent a message to the site admin via the form on the site. No response, probably over a month later now.

So I gave up and just read their old discussions. It's a shame though, the existing members look active over there, and it seems there are some knowledgeable people. Frustrating that I just can't seem to "activate" my membership. I literally have to log *out* to see forum discussions too. If I try to login, it lets me but then I'm blocked from the forums unless I activate the membership.