If you have little short term memory, it might be hard to remember what happened? Too, if a lot of different people are saying you appear/act a certain way, might help to just "accept" that and see where it takes you; one against a horde doesn't work for me when I do it :-)

I don't know why you "disagree" or give comments at all if it is not appreciated? Do you know or care about these people? I wouldn't "bother" with letting other people know what I think if they are not interested in hearing or discussing? Let them be wrong if they want to be, it's their life; unless they ask for your "opinion" or point of view, I would try not to say anything.