I'm sorry if this sounds weird. I'm a healthy guy at the age of 22 and I've been reasonably sexual active. I have an extremely difficult time when it comes to ejaculating during intercourse, it may be due to a condom but I doubt it. It usually takes at least 30 minutes, and by then my partner is already too sore to continue, where I then let her finish me off with a bj or a hj. I wasn't sure if this was a problem with excessive masturbation, some other health issue, or if I should see a therapist about this.

I don't have a history of any medical issues and I also don't take any drugs or drink. Any help regarding this issue would be great, since from what my partners have been telling me, lasting this long actually has not been pleasant for them and their inability to make me ejaculate had hurt their confidence.

Just wondering what you guys recommend, thanks ahead of time.