GRRRR at your roommate! Angela, listen to Greg. He's talking sense. You need to stand up for yourself and not let her run all over you like that. It doesn't sound like she's just trying to be helpful. Either she's entirely clueless or extremely passive-aggressive. And if you tell her and she won't change, ask to switch to a different apartment. From one who did put up with horrible roommated for nine months, and almost didn't survive to tell the tale. You know, you just don't need one more thing to have to put up with or deal with right now, on top of everything else!!!

GRRRR!!!