Hello RazelJenny --

I find it hard to comment because no specific situation is mentioned. If you are getting a lot of feedback suggesting that you are aggressive, perhaps you are not seeing your behaviors clearly.

I also wonder if you have piercings, tattoos, punk hair and clothing. The reason I bring this up is because some people have stereotypes about young people who have this kind of appearance, so I can see how assertive behavior might be misinterpreted by other people as aggressive, because they start out with biased fears.

Are you working with a T to help you figure this out?

I'm sorry that you're upset and hope you will feel better soon.