Thanks. I've been thinking a lot about this topic the last few days and I've come to the conclusion that my relations with most females are going to be mostly physical with the exception of a few female friends that I will rely on for emotional support.
I plan on getting out more soon and playing the field a bit and possibly getting into some online dating as well, but I'm most likely going to play them only for sex without actually opening up with the full intent on dumping each one after a few months. If I find a woman who I feel is more likely to accept me, I may reveal some things about myself, but avoid revealing too much and most likely friendzone her. While doing all of this I could build relations with other women who would be potential solid partners slowly like you suggested so that I can have both my immediate needs met and my future planned while remaining in full control. I would also have other women to flock to in the event of one breaking up with me which will prevent me from being hurt or alone.
It sucks that I have to do this and I know being this way can be painful for some women, but pain is the essence of life and all organisms are bound to Social Darwinism with humans being no exception so the way I see it it's either me or them and I refuse to ever be hurt again and will fight like a wounded wolf backed into a corner to preserve my life and well being.
At least I'm reasonably physically attractive even if I am a bit nerdy and while I'm not a body builder or anything, I can appear to be extremely confident even if said confidence is usually faked and I can make myself appear to be an internet celebrity with my background in SEO/Internet marketing and I could even make my Facebook account cap at 5,000 friends via botting, give myself a viral YouTube channel the same way, and use Photoshop to make myself appear to be a supermodel to the rest of the world so women idealize and practically worship me lolol