I like that this poll is so close, it shows that there are many ways to approach things and there is no right answer. What has been more important than anything in my recovery is finding what works for me and finding my own voice and agency in the world... (which is why 16 steps were so great, when I could attend them...)

For some people, they need/want to just be told what to do... I spent much of my life asking permission to breathe and making myself small. I didnt need to deflate my ego!