I spend a lot of time alone and for the most part i enjoy it. I like the freedom and spontaneity. I like not having to negotiate with someone over every little decision like the daily argument about what to have for dinner my x and i used to have.

Sometimes i feel lonely but it is for someone who would 'get' me; someone who would laugh at the same things and like the same music and that kind of person is pretty rare. I've been alone for 20 years, except for acquaintances and i think it's likely i will continue in this way. It's fine with me.