I have an excellent relationship with my parents, thankfully. So I know I'll have their support. Sigh. Its just a matter of me telling them, now.

And to drummergrl, the whole idea of false memories is throwing me for a loop. That just plants the seeds of doubt in me that anyone would believe me. Although the events are clear, the person who did it is not. I'd hate to name the wrong person and cause even more trouble. I totally get you on the not liking men. I don't not like them, in fact I get along with more so with boys/men than females. But the moment they even think about something more, I run

Thank you everyone for all the wonderful and heartfelt advice. Its been the leg up I've been seeking.

xoxoxo