I've tried my best to deal with severe trauma resulting from a very abusive relationship. I recently began dating again and met a guy who was incredibly honest, understanding and respectful. We have been dating for several months. I had a flashback last night and dissociated and thought he was my abuser. I completely lashed out at him over the phone. Today he told me he wants nothing to do with me. He said he was no longer attracted to me and to leave him alone. I apologized and tried to explain but he said he didn't want to be with me anymore. How can someone go from caring about you and being truly understanding to discarding me so fast? I pushed him away by lashing out because I was triggered. It ruins every relationship. I just never thought he'd go from wanting this so badly to cutting me off so quickly. I am unable to handle this.