if i may be so bold perhaps i could throw out my theory perhaps that should help alittle with the really great statement im sure we all think about ....

i think of DID ...as like a family (that you love of course) ....you have yourself...and you have the others....whether they are boys or girls...old or young...even aliens and birds....you can say...i am a part of my family...these are the others in my family....meet the others in family....this is (your little's name) ....and then there is you....the host....and sorta....who you are is you...because your family is a part of you correct? Like your last name....it resembles your family...not just you as the indiviudal...but you as a whole family unit....i dont know if im confusing you or not...or maybe my idea is like in way left field (i was always hitting foul balls in baseball for gym class lol) and maybe im just rambling on and on....but you can say it is you....and a part of you...is a part of your family....

either way...your all my friends hehe (hope that wasnt out of line or made you feel uncomfortable)

(((((((((((safe hugs to you))))))))))))))

love, inny