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Originally Posted by ruh roh
Please, try not to compare your therapist with the reports of others who report nurturing, mothering therapists. A couple weeks ago, I asked my therapist about all these attachment stories I read about. She said that some approaches, like re-parenting, are why she delayed becoming a therapist (I guess it was popular in the 70's and 80's). I said that it doesn't sound like it ends well, and she said, "It doesn't end."
Your therapist sounds like she's looking out for your interests here. I hope the break does you good and that you can get back to therapy (or not) with the focus on your life.
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I agree that she's trying to look out for my interests. I just wish it was on my timeframe or my decision. So, I'm somewhat taking back control and seeing if I can do it. I don't want to go to my next session and announce my plan. I'm concerned she will cancel my appts and I want to keep them in case this doesn't go as well as I hope. Plus maybe it will be a little easier knowing I have those sessions if I need them. Day 1 and I'm excited so far. A little longing pangs but nothing like in my past.