Your gyno is saying that b/c of your mi. If you didn't have it, your experience would most likely be different. It's terrible. I think you should go to the hospital and get the help you need. That kind of pain is not in your head. You need and you absolutely DESERVE help. You are a productive member of socitey. You are WORKING despite your severe pain and despite your crippling depressions. You have a partener and friends who love you and want you to feel better. Take care of you!