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Old Aug 11, 2015, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by rukspc View Post
I just started my anti-anxiety/depressant medication and I'll be going on a date next week for happy hour. How do I kindly let my date know ahead of time that I'd prefer not to drink alcohol as typically expected in the type of environment?

I didn't want to do dinner because it's too formal right now. Just hanging out and getting to know each other, but still don't want to seem lame because I can't drink due to my medication (which I haven't disclosed to anyone at all, not even family).

Any suggestions? I'm stuck 😑

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On that note, how do I tell my family and friends (some who can be judgemental at times)? I've been on medication before but everyone thinks I'm fine and ok without it.
I am struggling with talking to my mother right now and have realized I do not need to share any of that with her. Maybe there is no need to share with your family.

As for the date, ask to meet for coffee; it is often times less noisy and you can have better conversation. Or if there is a cafe with good desserts, you can do that instead. I know many people that do not drink for a variety of reasons, alcoholism, medication (not just mood meds), religious beliefs, and personal preference.