After my "Protesting" session with T on Monday. I've come to see that is not always in getting what we WANT that gives up satisfaction, Its in getting what we NEED is where the secret lies. I may want T not to take a break, but all I NEEDED was for her to hear my protests and validate them.

I can see other area's in my life now, where I've confused WANTS with NEEDS.

I'd no idea just how much I needed to be heard, now theres lots of little voices inside all wanting the be heard too.

Its not the result of our demands thats important, as much as the expressing them and having them heard!

Its so clear now, but until I got here, I couldnt "see" it.

King baby inside stamps and demands "I want, I want, I want," but now I can begin to teach it what it needs and know that though it may not be the expected result, it is the best result!