You are welcome. In my discussions with others that struggle I have noticed that often they suffered from having their boundaries disrespected in some way and they just did not know how to defend themselves. It could also be that someone did not have the kind of support and nurturing they needed and suffered from a parent or other individuals responding to their needs in a way that kept telling them to have needs was a bad thing, to have feelings was inconvenient or a bad thing too somehow. I have heard a lot of sad stories since I joined PC.