Ditch all the labels.. Plain and simple , Start a new blank slate for yourself. You do not have to accept what they say, seriously PD's are typically managed in Therapy. Worry about working on the mood disorder.. See what changes and stability you find then you can revisit whether you have a PD ..

Fyi .. I was IP once and I didn't agree with the IP pdocs opinions nor his wanting to snow me into a drooling zombie.. When discharged he gave me BPD .. Was it right or fitting? Nope.. My Pdoc removed it from my medical records.

Drop all the labels and work on just feeling better and building back up your self worth and self esteem .