I have (had?) a hard time connecting with female Ts. One that I just made absolutely no connection with at all - to the point I had a hard time staying awake in session, and the second who probably pushed me a bit to hard to connect... Transference from hell...
Now though, I think I would like work with a female T for a bit. I've come a long way with T. I think I could do it now, and learn a lot... I don't see myself having another T though. I don't plan on leaving my T til I'm done with therapy completely.