I've stated my feelings, and shared my experience, on this thread. Ava has assured us that finances are but one part of the reason she's thinking of speeding up her decision to marry. She's been very clear and considerate.

There are a thousand reasons to marry and far be it from me to decide what is right for another person...I can only share my own experience. For me the thread that Ava started has run its course, all questions answered, and I'm done with this thread. Blessings to all~