Wow I'm sorry you're having such ****** experiences with therapists.

Is your T going to be on medical leave for that long though? Would you consider having a break instead of looking for a nex therapist? I'm asking as you seem to struggle to find a decent LGBT therapist and perhaps a therapy break would be better.
I've had a two months break of therapy and it gave me a better perspective on things.
But of course that may not be what you are looking for.

Good luck anyway!