I know, Debbie, but my extended family was HUGE! One aunt had 8 surviving kids, the other had 5 daughters. Maybe that's what I'm going on. Can you imagine the family my oldest aunt had with 8 kids?? The in-laws and the grandkids!! When she passed the entire funeral chapel was filled with family.

Maybe if I open my eyes and realize how dysfunctional they all were, I'll be able to let go of my expectations. It's sure a struggle, though! I'm still never as happy as I am when my house is full of my family.