Turns out I was wrong about the numbers not 185 but 175 but the point is she's never ever been this heavy and I can't help commenting about it....which is the real question: how do I let her know she doesn' t look good (she's still wearing most of the same clothes and they don't fit), encourage her to lose weight, yet not make her feel bad about it....not to mention interfering with her meds.
(I just read this back to myself and I admit it reads quite selfish sounding...sorry its difficult to express the right words)