(((LittleMouse)))

May I say ever so gently that it doesn't sound like you're ready for this change yet? Is there a reason that you think you need to do this now?

I sometimes have wanted to ease off on the sessions b/c I know that one day it will be over. And, I think if *I* choose when, it will somehow be less painful because I have control over it. But if he has been helpful and it's still such a significant part of your life, I don't see the reason to make a forced withdrawal unless there is something I don't know.

I just hate to have you feel the pain of separation if you don't have to. Why is it wrong if you just want to go as often as you do? Why is that so bad? I think you should honor those sad feelings and reconsider your decision.