It was definitely a personal response, written just to me. It had a few details in the message that were specific to me, plus she sent it as an re: to my message, three weeks after her leave started. It was just really out of sync with me.

To respond to the other poster, she was not doped up on meds not was someone else responding for her. I wish that were the case, because that would be a reasonable excuse. I don't know what the situation with her health is right now, but I do know quite a few people who know her, and heard that she has been on vacation to spend time with her loved ones. I'm sure she needs it and she should be spending time with her people, especially if she does have some kind of progressive illness. It's just hard to feel tossed aside, like it doesn't matter what happens to me while she's gone... If she even comes back. Of course, she didn't respond to that message I sent asking if she knew whether she would be coming back or not.