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Old Aug 13, 2015, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted by I'm Worth It View Post
I wouldn't call what you're going through and experiencing sabotaging though. Sabotaging is more about emotional distancing and doing things consciously or subconsciously to push a person away and preventing or slowing down the development of closeness.

I did pushing away and distancing by unreasonable nitpicking. It is a sure way to push people away. So I did sabotage the relationship. I currently do not so things are moving forward. Our relationship isn't light and casual. It's fun but it ain't casual lol We have very strong emotional connection and discuss pretty much every single thing including mistakes we both make. Thanks again

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